Recently, while researching my family tree, I made the happy discovery that - according to the folks at Ancestry.com - I am a distant cousin to the famous black educator, counsel to U.S. Presidents, and founding President of Tuskegee Institute/University, Booker Taliferro Washington.
If Booker T. Washington is my "Cousin Booker," then it only makes sense. He and my wonderful departed mother both called Alabama home, and both of them were wise and positive thinkers to the point that they always saw the good in everything - including adversity.
In his classic book, "Up from Slavery," Booker T. Washington said:
"Then, when we rid ourselves of prejudice, or racial feeling, and look facts in the face, we must acknowledge that, notwithstanding the cruelty and moral wrong of slavery, the ten million Negroes inhabiting this country, who themselves or whose ancestors went through the school of American slavery, are in a stronger and more hopeful condition, materially, intellectually, morally, and religiously, than is true of an equal number of black people in any other portion of the globe.
This is so to such an extent that Negroes in this country, who themselves or whose forefathers went through the school of slavery, are constantly returning to Africa as missionaries to enlighten those who remained in the fatherland. This I say, not to justify slavery — on the other hand, I condemn it as an institution. We all know that in America it was established for selfish and financial reasons, and not from a missionary motive — but to call attention to a fact, and to show how Providence so often uses men and institutions to accomplish a purpose....
"Ever since I have been old enough to think for myself, I have entertained the idea that, notwithstanding the cruel wrongs inflicted upon us, the black man got nearly as much out of slavery as the white man did."
In a lecture before the Hamilton Club in Chicago, December 10, 1895, the former slave said:
"We went into slavery a piece of property; we came out American citizens.
We went into slavery pagans; we came out Christians.
We went into slavery without a language; we came out speaking the proud Anglo-Saxon tongue.
We went into slavery with slave chains clanking about our wrists; we came out with the American ballot in our hands.
"Progress, progress is the law of nature; under God it shall be our eternal guiding star....
My parents, now deceased, would have been pleased to call Booker T. Washington "Cousin." Both Mom and Dad were proud Southerners, descendents of Confederate veterans, and also outspoken advocates of racial equality. Both of my parents also had American Indian/Cherokee blood in their family trees and no doubt some of my ancestors walked the bitter Trail of Tears, which started in Bradley County, Tennessee, where I grew up.
Mom and Dad taught me and my eleven siblings to always find the good in even the worst of circumstances. They believed in the God of Romans 8:28 who said, "And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose."
I'll wait for another post to tell more about how my minister father was a very effective civil rights activist, going all the way back to the 1930s, when he was a teenager in Atlanta, Georgia. I believe he would have made Booker T. Washington proud.